S.A.R.D #21 – Spinning the Bottle: A Group Thing

WARNINGI’m going to be discussing something of an adult nature. I am whipping this out as it comes to mind and I have thoughts that are raw and uncensored – I may or may not use vulgarity. Oh, and it may have tons of grammatical and spelling errors too (Oh, the horror!?!?!). This post is intended for mature audiences (i.e. ages 21+). Also, names have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent.


I had indicated in previous posts that Kat and I had a tendency to make our sexual activities non-monogamous, and the topic I’m discussing today occurred with another couple – although, Kat and I didn’t engage in actual sex with the other couple, the desire on my part existed. There was an opportunity to play spin the bottle with another couple and Kat and I invited this couple to hang out with us and we ended up playing spin the bottle – I don’t even know who/when/who/how, but it happened.

It’s never been a secret that I had a lot of friends that were female, but I had a female friend that I was attracted to (although I couldn’t even admit it to myself, since I well understood she and I were very different in thoughts and opinions) while I was with Kat. I never had any desire to cheat and I wasn’t planning on cheating, but I would be lying if I said a temptation didn’t exist. Anyways, somehow this other woman and her boyfriend (I no longer recall his name, but let’s refer to him as Steve and I don’t share real names in these posts, so let’s refer to her as Kristin) were invited by Kat and I to hang out at Kat’s house. Of course, we had a few drinks and being young adults, we probably had an ample amount of hormones running in this pool of arousal when the Spin the Bottle game began.

Granted, it has been so long ago, I barely remember the chain of events that unfolded, but we had all ended up naked. Each time the bottle was spun, one of us had to remove an item of clothing. I had always been attracted to Kristin, but seeing her naked was mesmerizing. I knew I loved Kat, but couldn’t understand how excited I was to see Kristin naked. I even remember Kat whispering to me, “Kristin has amazing tits”.

Now that were were all naked. Me and Steve both had raging hard-ons. I couldn’t help but notice that Steve was slightly longer than I was and had slightly bigger balls, I certainly had girth that was greater than his. He was taller than I Was and quite a bit leaner. I had a muscular build and was short and stocky, comparatively. Kristin had a tight and toned body, big perky breasts, darker skin than Kat. But Kat, of course, had massive breasts, bigger than Kristin’s, but it was painfully obvious to Kat that she wasn’t in as great physical shape as Kristin was (another thing that she whispered in my ear).

As we sat around, looking at each other’s naked bodies, hormones raging, the nature of the Spin the Bottle Game changed. We began incorporating sexual acts – like dares, when the bottle spun and landed on someone. The person spinning it chose a dare the “victim” had to do. Like I mentioned earlier, I don’t remember what order everything occurred, but I do remember Kat and I had been asked to perform oral sex on each other, based on which one of us got the bottle pointed at us. I remember Kat and Kristin touching each other’s breasts based on the bottle. And I can’t tell if Steve and I had to touch each other or not. One thing I remember is that Kristin refused to perform oral on Steve – due to something about getting lock-jaw once when she had tried giving a blowjob before. We tended to keep most of the sexual interactions between partners – i.e. me and Kat or Kristin and Steve. Although, I know, based on my level of riskyness that I would have gone further. I feel at that time, if Kat and Kristin were to have sex or Kat and Steve had sex, I would have been okay with it. God knows, if someone dared me to hook up with Kristin, I would have done it.  And, since I had bisexual tendencies, I would have gotten sexual with Steve, if dared.

But, nothing major had occurred…maybe that’s for good reason.

Sometimes, I look back on things like this with a little bit of devilish fondness and other times I look at it like horribly immature and immoral behavior. But, ultimately it is what it is and there is nothing I can do to change the behavior.


Side topic to the above:

For some time, I have I have been debating whether or not to keep this series on my blog going. Especially, after I posted the last post on this category. I seem to be generating little conversation or interest in this topic matter. Although, I find some smidgen of peace in facing this aspect of myself, I also wonder if it is too gratuitous and flamboyant in it’s presentation – i.e. is it a vice that contempts the vices of others?

Please feel free to comment on the above topic and whether or not I should keep this series going.



11 thoughts on “S.A.R.D #21 – Spinning the Bottle: A Group Thing

  1. Spin the bottle is a rite of passage! Hanging with the crew, bored silly, someone goes find a bottle and says let’s play… and whatever happens, happens. Or like the time I learned how to play poker… then strip poker – what a night that was! Inhibitions got lost, clothing got lost, sex happened but it seems no one wanted to play poker with me since I was usually the last one with some clothes on…

    Keep this piece. You write it, I’ll read it and continue to comment. It’s good for you to get such things out of your head.

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  2. i loved this post. personally, i don’t think it matters whether others are interested, i view blogs as a fun space to express yourself. it’s all for you at the end of the day, and if you get something positive out of it…go for it!

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