S.A.R.D. #28 – Pride? A passing thought on a first date…

WARNING: I’m going to be discussing something of an adult nature. I am whipping this out as it comes to mind and will be thoughts that are raw and uncensored – I may or may not use vulgarity. Oh, and it may have tons of grammatical and spelling errors too (Oh, the horror!?!?!). This post is …

Recent thoughts on my sexuality and stuff.

To say I have self-esteem issues, is an understatement. If you've read any of the things I've written about Hilda, it becomes quickly obvious how self-deprecating I am. I struggle, I think, for a couple of reasons - I think I suck at inter-personal relationships and I suck at my sexuality. Truthfully, I'm not even …

I wish I were a…

...a woman. As many of you realize, I spend a lot of time focused on my sexuality and my expression of that sexuality. I have to say, after coming out to my mother, I am feeling much better about myself. In fact, I have a small sense of pride at the moment - it doesn't …

Coming Out: A Mother’s Love?

To say I have contemplated coming out for a while is probably a bit of an understatement. The reality is that I have agonized about whether or not I should. I have gone on back and forth about coming out and for the most part had resolved myself to keeping it a secret - or …

QFMR (the LGBT ones): How did you come out?

During an argument I had once with someone I had trusted with the knowledge that I am bisexual, I was threatened with that person outing me to family and friends. It was hurtful that I allowed this person to have that kind of power over me and it has had me worried ever since that …