QFMR (the LGBT ones): How did you come out?

During an argument I had once with someone I had trusted with the knowledge that I am bisexual, I was threatened with that person outing me to family and friends. It was hurtful that I allowed this person to have that kind of power over me and it has had me worried ever since that …

I want…Stephanie

Okay, I wasn't going to write this, because I have been keeping it inside for quite some time. But I want to break Stephanie out of prison a little. I haven't shaved my legs in a long time. I haven't gotten a pedicure in a long time. I haven't worn panties and a bra in …

Obsessive Thoughts Running in the Background

For the past several days, I've had some thoughts obsessing my mind when it's not focused. Honestly, it's something that I go through on a regular basis when I make attempts at sobriety. And I used to handle and accept my actions in the past as blips on my historical timeline. But, as I have …

“How can you be loyal to your partner when you want both?”

Today I was asked question - the one that is the title of this post. It's an intriguing question. Although I have seen a lot of bisexuals online get offended at such a question (because it usually leads to a series of other questions), I have never, personally, been offended by this line of questioning. …

Cultivate Stephanie.

I had a crummy weekend. I know, I know...same old story and a different day, huh? I spend a lot of time whining and crying about my life and not a lot of time making changes. Of course, the reality is that I am making changes. And I'm struggling and fighting through them. To say …