To say I have contemplated coming out for a while is probably a bit of an understatement. The reality is that I have agonized about whether or not I should. I have gone on back and forth about coming out and for the most part had resolved myself to keeping it a secret - or … Continue reading Coming Out: A Mother’s Love?
Today I was asked question - the one that is the title of this post. It's an intriguing question. Although I have seen a lot of bisexuals online get offended at such a question (because it usually leads to a series of other questions), I have never, personally, been offended by this line of questioning. … Continue reading “How can you be loyal to your partner when you want both?”
Yesterday, I indicated that I wasn't managing my sobriety so well. That's probably an understatement, and today - this morning, especially - I felt my thoughts begin to unravel my emotions. It was a common tactic of Hilda, I'm sure. But I don't want to feel this way, so I am writing this all down, … Continue reading Perfectionism: Or How My Thoughts Spin Out of Control.
Yesterday, I was having a conversation with a friend on Twitter about being bisexual and being married. The conversation began, because I ran into someone yesterday - a guy - that I found absolutely mesmerizing and I had a definitive physiological reaction to him (if you catch my drift). I had made a comment about … Continue reading Exploration
Yesterday, I was questioning myself again. Specifically, I happened to be questioning my sexuality again. I had tweeted out, "I'm having one of those 'maybe I shouldn't be bisexual' days..." because I was in a bit of a mood where I was pondering the things that impact me in a negative way. I was looking … Continue reading What if I am not…?